Speech eval round 2

As I was putting Jillian to bed last night my comment to Brent was "She did not poop today... we ended antibiotics yesterday, she will now get backed up, we will end doing a lot of things to get her poop and possibly have to take her for the doctor for it, she will start pooping again, we will have a normal few days, then she will start vomiting again, she will get pneumonia and an ear infection, she will go on antibiotics again, poop like crazy for a couple of days and then we will be back here. It's a month long cycle that we have lived in repeat for the past three months... but hey at least there is constancy."  You have to give consistency some credit right?!?!?!

Yesterday we went for her speech eval at children's. We were going to have a GI appointment too but they called on Wednesday and cancelled. We still had to go into GI though and do a weight check.

Last vitals on 1/6:
Length: 28.3in (11.76 percentile)
weight: 9.78 (21.56lb)

Yesterday on 1/31:
Length: 28.7in (13 percentile)
Weight: 9.66kg (21.3lb)

The nutritionist will be calling to let me know of any changes to her diet. From November to December she gained too much weight on the EXACT same diet and now she lost.  We are not sure if the loss is due to her being active or her having been sick or if it is just her goofy digestive system. She has been on the same diet for months and she has never made the same gains/loss any month. Her growth charts in spots looks more like a heart monitor.

Then we went to speech. I filled the speech pathologist about Jillian history. She asked me why we were there for a re-eval and I told her that the gastric motility dr was mad that we stopped oral feedings and he said we needed to come see her. I said that he told me that it did not make sense for her to be aspirating on vomit if she had a good swallow study... her comment "he knows better then that." She just kept shaking her head and talked about a few studies that show that what I was saying was correct. She said she agreed with our choice to pull bottles because of the risk of pneumonia and that she thinks that was a good idea. She felt around Jillian's mouth and said that everything was normal for a child who did not eat orally.
I then spoon feed Jillian 2 small baby spoonfulls of formula. The first one she let roll out of her mouth but the second one she took like a champ. We then tried sweet potatoes. She took the first spoonful and let most of it come back out but the second one she did just fine. We are not talking about much food here. Less then a tablespoon amount total. We then kept giving her the spoon but with nothing on the top. She took it like a child would who is learning to eat with a spoon. She wanted more but we knew not to push it or there would be puke. She did a great job!
After she was done we talk about how she has all the oral skills and that this is a GI issue... what have other specialists said:
Neurology: this is a GI issue
ENT: this is a GI issue
Pulmonology: this is a GI issue
Genetics: this is a GI issue
Birth to 3: this is a GI issue
Speech: this is a GI issue

GI keeps sending us to other people but all of them keep saying that this is a GI issue that is affecting other areas.I was not expecting to hear any differently yesterday either.
Speech's recommendation is that we can give her food to play with at meals but not give it to her to eat orally. That we can do tastes with tiny amounts but not enough for her to get any volume. She said that if she is having trouble to stop.
On the way home from speech she must have vomited in the car because there was orange all over her white coat. About 1/2 way home she started moaning for several minutes. That is not like her at all. She normally sleeps the whole ride home but instead she had a hard time sleeping. When I got home I vented about 7-10ml of orange out. At night when we hooked her drainage bag up we got orange globs out... 8+ hours later. So, typical Jillian motility...

Orange Chunks in the drainage tube

This post made me really nervous. Why? Because I am always afraid that then we tell people Jillian is doing a food trail they will think that she is able to eat. When I talk about her trying baby food I am talking about the fact that she ate less the a tablespoon and she vomited and we got some back out hours later. We are not talking about a sustaining amount of food. We are talking about an amount the still makes it so she is 100% tube fed. We are still talking about less then a tablespoon amount just so that she can learn the skills normal to a kid her age but not take in enough to make her puke. We are working hard to keep food a positive thing and for it to stay positive we have to do what we can so that she does not associate food with pain. I just don't want people to think that because Jillian plays with a spoon that has a little favor on it that she will be off the tube soon or that she is able to eat normally. That is not the case. Food trials are one of the hardest things emotionally for me. I see her in pain. We experience vomiting and moaning. The fears of choking are very present. I can't explain why food tastings like this bring out so much emotion in me, but they do. So, no, we are not any closer to her eating orally for calories, but I am ok with that. I was not expecting that we would be after speech yesterday.  We are blessed that she has a feeding tube that takes care of her need for nutrition. She is well nourished and happy and that matters a whole lot more then eating orally.

She found a Doc blanket on clearance... she carried it through the store

She can be such a ham!

She and daddy were dancing

What is more fun then a chair in a tent?

She loves her dolly